Broken heart is not bad

Ketut Artayasa
Sharing while learning
2 min readFeb 16, 2024

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When your day is long
And the night, the night is yours alone
When you’re sure you’ve had enough
Of this life, well hang on

Don’t let yourself go
’Cause everybody cries
Everybody hurts sometimes

Sometimes everything is wrong
Now it’s time to sing along

as R.E.M said that “Everybody Hurts”

A broken heart is not so bad, a broken heart is a huge power resource too when it tackled properly. Everyone must have experienced this condition in their life, everyone doesn’t gain everything as they wish, some of them will be failed, some of them make us sad, angry, etc.

I am a kind of person that easy feel broken heart, but every broken heart in other side always come with great power to jump to other level of motivation to proofing something, of course in the right way. If we tackle it with right big hug, it’s like a nuclear, come with huge power, generate much electrical power for our brain to grab everything in this universe.

Ask yourself, you must have felt this way. The next challenge is how to use this nuclear reactions to produce electricity then maximize our potential. Of course everyone didn’t need to hurt them life to get this power.

How to manage a broken heart, it’s hard and varies, but believe me, time heals, leave something that hurts you, embrace it. While give yourself to back normal, use this great power to gaining something useful, learn a new complex theory, enjoy a new hobby, build somethings, build new OS, learn new programming language, hacking something and soon.

Believe me, everything will be fine.

Dedicated to my friend, who lost his life because of a broken heart, sorry I was late writing this article.

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